DOMINIK turned 13

 

My elder, first-born son, my sweet Dominik is a little gentleman. He always detects my mood, says nothing just hugs me when I need. Unfortunately, he hasn’t met his father for more than a year. Two birthdays, two summer holidays, an Easter, a Christmas, a complete school year, tremendous weekends without him – till now (and a police report abuse because of non-fulfilment to maintain his child and then a warning letter to his employee to let them know that he has such an obligation), but presumably this will be expanded. Who knows when and how he is going to appear again. Sad thing. He lives his life with his honey baby happily who also has a son (same age) but lives separately, with his father. Bag and its patch…

 

My sweet son grew a LOT in the last few months. His voice is changing and has already overgrown me in height and in shoe size. He is a PC-guru, a real gamer. I like when he is playing with foreign children and speaks in English with them. Anyway, his English is very good and never stop developing due to the games, all in English. We often speak English with each other at home and he often initiate and always can express everything he wants to say.

The two boys love each other very much and they really got together since March due to the digital education. Nolen’s first and last thing in the morning and in the evening is to enter Dominik’s room and give him a kiss. Dominik sees him affectionately and nicely smiles at him.

He is the right hand of Gabi around the house or else and helps him in everything. Sounds strange but he can help much more to Gabi than Gabi can help him. Their relationship changed more times and a LOT during 3 years. It was completely different at the very beginning, at the age of 10. There was a breakpoint when the classic sentence was said „he is not my father” and then when Nolen was born and then… now as he gets older and smarter, he can put the things in its place. I love him very much and am very proud that both of my sons would never hurt anybody deliberately, on no condition.