About us from the very beginning

Going 2 years back in time, I now make attempt to truly describe how everything began between Gabi & me. It is not a long story. However, so so many things happened since then.

A couple of years ago, I had a vision. Or rather an anticipation. According to it, I meet the man of promise when I decide to put the braces on my teeth. Why? The answer is simple: love comes when you rely on it least. As a procedure like toothstraightening temporarily may ruin self-esteem, so the opportunity was given. (Not that I basically was swelled with self-confidence.) On 1st of August, 2017, just on the day I got my braces, we both looked forward to being a couple from that time.

 

Gabi came from the same circle of acquaintance and knew Dominik earlier than me. We met once on a birthday party but did not speak or dealt with each other at all and later he came to my house when we started to organize the summer vacation with friends, Juli and Laci. On that summer we had a couple of joint program with lot of fun together, highlighted by the Turkish vacation and then crowned by a weekend with friends at a fishing lake in Kunadacs.

After a few weeks (namely two) he moved to me and shortly I became uncertain not only in him but also in myself. One day I packed his belongings and wanted to say goodbye. He was very upset. We both were in love. As for me, I found most of the things in him that I was looking for but somehow I felt less than 100%. My theory was to find someone with well above 100% because in case the relationship becomes faded, the percentage remains still around 100%. 

The situation made me to rethink. In the last 7 years, I hardly let any guy close to me, supposing they are not the ones I was looking for. I did not want to flatter and then hurt them without thinking the whole seriously. With other words: playing with guys and their feelings was never my style. So when I realized that we were born not for each other, I immediately said goodbye. I did not give time to them. Should had I? 

At this point, I decided to give time. Time to deepen the knowledge about each other. And it seemed to work. What if my theory was wrong? Why to start at e.g. 120% and then let fall down who knows till which number if we can start from e.g. 70% and then can go up by small and small till the sky? Sounds much smarter.

We spoke about marriage and baby and I thought that this is the man who deserves an own child best, seeing how he treated the children around us. At the beginning of his 40's I knew well, once the decision was made, there was no time to waste. And the biggest miracle happened! The new little life was conceived immediately, two months after we became a couple.

And here begins a new story. The next one I'm going to write about.